Six ways single mothers can raise a sorry Black man

These words come from a man who has seen too many Black men grow up to become irresponsible, self-absorbed, excessively entitled, weak men, largely because they were coddled at home.  This does not always happen at the hands of a single mother, but it almost always occurs due to parents who do not understand their role in raising intelligent and responsible human beings. Let’s be clear:  If you raise your son to be a boy, he’s going to remain a boy.  Typically, strong male role models make it easier to build manhood; mothers cannot usually do it alone. This is … Continue reading Six ways single mothers can raise a sorry Black man

BILLIONAIRES Prefer Black Women

Kola Boof: Billionaires Prefer *Black* Women *There has been over 900 views of this post alone on brown girls connect in just two days! More than the combined views of virtually ALL posts. Because of this, I am reposting it. Although no one has made any comments, I am very interested in knowing why this post has everyone’s attention? Please post comments regarding your interest in this topic. All thoughts and opinions are welcome.* Billionaire Ben Horowitz says: “Black women are loyal and they guard your interests. Black wives are for grown ups.” One thing I learned while living with … Continue reading BILLIONAIRES Prefer Black Women

Young Black Woman Goes From Part-Time Job To Franchise Owner Of Chik-Fil-A!

Ashley Derby had the kind of career path that many dream about but never get to walk. When she was 15, she started working at her local Chik-Fil-A, now, 28-years-old and a Spelman graduate, Ashley owns and operates her own chain on the University of Southern California campus! In an interview with LA Focus Newspaper, Derby shared endearing details about her beautiful journey, “My job description was pretty much taking orders on the registers and cleaning up in the dining room.” And now she literally owns the joint! Derby is proud of her ability to be able to provide for … Continue reading Young Black Woman Goes From Part-Time Job To Franchise Owner Of Chik-Fil-A!

BILLIONAIRES Prefer Black Women

Kola Boof: Billionaires Prefer *Black* Women   Billionaire Ben Horowitz says: “Black women are loyal and they guard your interests. Black wives are for grown ups.” One thing I learned while living with Osama Bin Laden (against my will in 1996)…is that while the saying goes “gentlemen prefer Blondes“…..a less talked about phenomenon is that BILLIONAIRES marry Black  women. This year alone, we have SEVEN high profile engagements between billionaire men and what are supposedly (according to Western culture) the most undesirable women on earth—Black women.  And the fact that these women are more “authentically Black” (their genes more African looking … Continue reading BILLIONAIRES Prefer Black Women